I , take you _, to be my wedded wife. To have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness or in health, to love and to cherish till death do us part. And hereto I pledge you my faithfulness.

The above vow must be very familiar to most of us, you’ve actually heard it in a wedding, or heard it in a movie, or probably said them yourself.

A marriage is meant to be a sacred bond, a unique cherished one, this is part of the reason why this vow is taken at God’s altar (a sacred place) with a sacred witness (The priest) with family and friends watching to testify.

Marriage is a beautiful thing, getting to spend the rest of your life with someone you truly love, enjoying their company, affection, knowing that someone got your back at all times, you can be vulnerable and share deep secrets with each other and have sex whenever (one of my favourite parts of marriage)

The truth is that, a great deal of your happiness, Peace of mind and development will come from who you get married to, Just finding a wife automatically obtains you favour from the Lord (according to the holy scriptures)

A vow is a pledge, a promise, an oath and as well should not be played with. Many people see Marriage as a legal contract which is understood when we look at marriage with the eyes of the law (court Marriage)

But it is actually a spiritual matter, every good business partnership deal or contract has to properly examined by conclusion, the same goes for marriage too,
The thing about legal contracts is that there is room for fines, penalties when there is a breach of contract but marriage is “Till Death Do Us Part” remember.

No marriage should be done in a haste, I get that most people are under pressure from family and friends probably because age is not on their side.

Every sincere business partner should disclose all information in “Utmost good faith” (most business owners, lawyers and insurance agents will understand) good faith is the art of being sincere in one’s dealing without a desire to defraud, deceive, or take advantage of the other party. So whatever information that would hurt any body in marriage should be said before marriage, all cats should be let out of their bags so that nobody is hurt or exploited.

In marriage, it is always said that “What God has joined together, let no man put assunder” I always joke about it when I threaten to break people’s relationships (the unmarried) But just so you know even those in marriage aren’t allowed to put assunder too (remember they are men too)

So Before you walk down the aisle, you might want to reexamine your future spouse and reread the vow, and ask yourself “is this what I really want?”

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