I remember when my second phone was stolen, I was so sad not just because I couldn’t replace the phone due to my financial status at the time but also because of all the files and media I had lost too.
For some days, I just kept moping around, thinking of what to do and I was not coming up with any solutions.

After a while, I then decided to do something else apart from mourning my phone…lol. I chose to reconnect with my inner child who loved to write and doodle a lot.

I wrote. Normally, when ideas popped into my head, I would record them as voice memos or jot them down on my note app…but mostly I didn’t go back to them.
The only actual handwriting I did was back when I was a kid and doodled on everything around even if it was meaningless.

But during this period, I wrote. I wrote about everything because that’s what I enjoyed doing. I wrote about how I felt in the morning when I woke up, how my day was going; how the sky looked, how airy the evening was and how it made me feel…I wrote aesthetically and I enjoyed it so much to the point of not being bored at all.

I decided to forget my predicament and chose to look at it differently. This helped me a lot. It helped me not focus on the bad in the situation but be able to see something good in it.

𝙒𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙞𝙨 𝙋𝙚𝙧𝙨𝙥𝙚𝙘𝙩𝙞𝙫𝙚?

Perspectives are everything, they help you shape your life in the ways you love.

Imagine looking at the same object from two different angles – suddenly, it appears completely different. This is the power of perspective.

In a layman’s definition, Perspective refers to how someone sees or interprets something. It is influenced by a person’s experiences, beliefs, values, and emotions and affects how they understand and respond to various situations or events.

Perspective is shaped by a variety of factors, including culture, upbringing, education, and personal biases, and it varies greatly between people.

𝙃𝙤𝙬 𝙙𝙤𝙚𝙨 𝙋𝙚𝙧𝙨𝙥𝙚𝙘𝙩𝙞𝙫𝙚 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙥𝙚 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙡𝙞𝙛𝙚?

Perspective can have a significant impact on how we experience and navigate our lives. Here are a few ways in which perspective can shape our lives.

1. It affects your thoughts and emotions: Your perspective affects how you see and respond to events and circumstances in your life, which has an impact on your thoughts and emotions. For instance, if you adopt an optimistic outlook, you might be more inclined to view obstacles as chances for development, but adopting a pessimistic outlook might make you feel defeated or hopeless.

2. It influences your decision-making: Your decisions in life can be affected by your perspective. You can make more informed and balanced decisions by considering multiple points of view and weighing the advantages and disadvantages of various solutions.

3. It shapes your relationships: How you relate and comprehend other people’s opinions might be influenced by your perspective. You can increase your empathy and create deeper, more meaningful connections with others by being open to diverse points of view.

4. It shapes your overall outlook on life: Our perspective can shape your overall attitude and outlook on life. By adopting a positive perspective, you may be more likely to feel hopeful, while a negative perspective may lead to feelings of pessimism.

In short, perspective can shape your thoughts, emotions, relationships, decisions, and overall outlook on life.
By cultivating a positive and open-minded perspective, you can live a more fulfilling and satisfying life.

I learnt how much I enjoyed different forms of writing which I do today to help myself and others. I also learned patience and how important viewpoints are;

𝙃𝙤𝙬 𝙙𝙤 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙡𝙚𝙖𝙧𝙣 𝙩𝙤 𝙫𝙞𝙚𝙬 𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙜𝙨 𝙙𝙞𝙛𝙛𝙚𝙧𝙚𝙣𝙩𝙡𝙮 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙞𝙣 𝙖 𝙢𝙤𝙧𝙚 𝙥𝙤𝙨𝙞𝙩𝙞𝙫𝙚 𝙡𝙞𝙜𝙝𝙩?
Learning to view things differently and in a more positive light can be challenging, but it is definitely possible with some effort and practice. Here are some tips that may help:

√ Practice gratitude: Simply take some time each day to think about the things you’re grateful for. Focusing on these things can help shift your perspective to a more positive one.

√ Surround yourself with positivity: Spend time with people who uplift and inspire you.

√ Engage in mindfulness exercises: Mindfulness meditation can assist you in increasing your awareness of your thoughts and feelings. You can stop negative thoughts in their tracks before they get out of control by being aware of them.

√ Reframe negative thoughts: When you catch yourself thinking negatively, try to reframe the thought more positively. For example, instead of thinking “I can’t do this,” try thinking “This is difficult, but I will give it my best shot.”

√ Look after yourself: Ensure that you are looking after both your physical and mental well-being. Get some exercise, eat well, and sleep enough. It may be simpler to be optimistic when you’re physically healthy.

𝙒𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝘿𝙤𝙚𝙨 𝙋𝙤𝙨𝙞𝙩𝙞𝙫𝙚 𝙋𝙚𝙧𝙨𝙥𝙚𝙘𝙩𝙞𝙫𝙚 𝘿𝙤 𝙩𝙤 𝙔𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙇𝙞𝙛𝙚?

1. Increased creativity: When you can see things from different angles, it can help you to think more creatively and come up with new ideas.

2. More adaptability: Being able to see situations from different perspectives can help you be more adaptable and flexible, which can be a valuable trait in both personal and professional settings.

3. Increased self-awareness: You can learn more about who you are and how you think by looking at your viewpoints and biases. This results in improved self-awareness and personal development.

5. Improved relationships: By considering the perspectives of others, you can communicate more effectively and build stronger relationships with those around you.Better problem-solving abilities: Taking a fresh look at a situation might help you find creative solutions to issues you may not have previously thought of.

In conclusion,having a positive perspective or staying positive in turbulent situations has proved to be healthy for our mental health and life in general. Pessimism only worsens the situation and most times it creates problems we didn’t originally have.

𝐍𝐨𝐰, 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐠𝐨𝐨𝐝 𝐝𝐨𝐞𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐝𝐨 𝐭𝐨 𝐚𝐧𝐲𝐨𝐧𝐞?

𝘗𝘰𝘴𝘪𝘵𝘪𝘷𝘦 𝘰𝘶𝘵𝘭𝘰𝘰𝘬𝘴 𝘥𝘰𝘦𝘴𝘯’𝘵 𝘪𝘮𝘱𝘭𝘺 𝘺𝘰𝘶’𝘳𝘦 𝘥𝘦𝘭𝘶𝘥𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧. 𝘙𝘢𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳, 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘺 𝘪𝘯𝘥𝘪𝘤𝘢𝘵𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶’𝘳𝘦 𝘢𝘸𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘰𝘧 𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘵𝘺 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘩𝘢𝘷𝘦 𝘮𝘢𝘥𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘥𝘦𝘤𝘪𝘴𝘪𝘰𝘯 𝘵𝘰 𝘵𝘢𝘬𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘪𝘯𝘪𝘵𝘪𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘷𝘦 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘢𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘵𝘪𝘦𝘴 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘢 𝘱𝘢𝘳𝘵 𝘰𝘧.

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